Leader Armor by Edward Pallas
Study Guide
The author of Leader Armor is ____
Edward Pallas
Leader Armor is a combination of ____ and ____ skills that make up your leadership capacity.
Hard
Soft
Technical and tactical competencies – are necessary but not sufficient:
Hard Skills
Technical skills that are more likely taught in trade schools and colleges:
Hard Skills
Writing, math, Microsoft office, foreign language competency are examples of:
Hard Skills
People skills, how you deal with yourself, and how you deal with others:
Soft Skills
The theory that the unskilled are often unaware they are unskilled:
The Dunning-Kruger Effect (D-K Effect)
Part of a group of cognitive biases that fall under the broad term illusory superiority, from social psychology:
The Dunning-Kruger Effect (D-K Effect):
D-K Effect:
Theory that the unskilled are unaware they are unskilled
Part of a group of cognitive biases that fall under the broad term illusory superiority, from social psychology.
Most people do not understand that leadership is about:
RELATIONSHIPS.
His dad set him up with two mental frameworks:
GROWTH mindset
LEADERSHIP mindset
You become a better leader through the conscious development of your:
COMPETENCE.
The most effective way to measure leadership success is to measure:
EMPLOYEE ENGAGEMENT.
Management and leadership are not labels; they consist of:
BEHAVIORS.
Good MANAGEMENT is the foundation for GOOD LEADERSHIP.
Management is different from leadership. Both are ___; but good leadership is built on a foundation of _____.
Behaviors
Management
Good leaders do more than influence people; they also create:
ENGAGEMENT.
Performance above the minimum standard is called:
DISCRETIONARY BEHAVIOR
Leader Armor is a metaphor for all the various ____, ____, and ____ a leader uses to influence others ethically.
Knowledge
Skills
Abilities
FOUR stages of COMPETENCE:
unconscious incompetence
conscious incompetence
conscious competence
unconscious competence
You are incompetent but you don’t know it:
Stage 1, unconscious incompetence.
Where awareness begins:
Stage 2, conscious incompetence.
You figured out what works and what doesn’t:
Stage 3, Conscious competence.
Two types of leaders make it to this stage of competence: natural born and those who practiced so much it is second nature:
Unconscious competence
HOW TO LEARN 3 Stages: Know, Understand, Apply. In the ___ Stage, you become aware of basic terminology and concepts. Once in this stage, you’ve reached the 2nd Stage of competence (conscious incompetence).
HOW TO LEARN 3 Stages: Understand,
KSA stands for:
Knowledge, skills, abilities
Embracing or admitting you’re a new supervisor who might make mistakes, you’re creating:
Psychological safety
You can find friends with those you lead by:
Setting clear boundaries
Power is the capacity, the potential, to ___
Influence others
Power that comes only from rank: (the BADGE analogy) (Authority is an analogy)
Legitimate Power
A subordinate may react in three ways; outcomes include:
Resistance
Compliance
Commitment
Recipient opposes you: resistance
Recipient does the bare minimum: compliance
Recipient goes above and beyond: commitment discretionary behavior
FIVE Bases of Power:
Coercive, Reward, Legitimate, Expert, and Referent
The HAMMER is an analogy to which of the previous bases of power?
Coercive - A hammer gets the job done. Most leaders only have one tool of leadership on their belt: the hammer. But leaders needs to develop various tools (soft skills) so they are equipped to handle people problems that come their way.
Theory that humans have basic needs that must be met in hierarchy:
Maslow’s Theory
Performance above the standard; when one is engaged; is referred to as: Discretionary behavior. A person uses his/her discretion in going above/beyond.
Bases of Power Review
Coercive Hammer - Get the job done
Reward Carrot - Giving rewards
Legitimate Badge - Power that comes from rank only, authority is an analogy
Expert Manual - Power comes from knowledge
Referent Magnet - Power to attract people to you, want to please, go above/beyond
_____ is the legitimate right to do something. ____ is the capacity, the potential, to influence others.
Authority; Power
Use ___ to influence others. ____ is the legitimate right, the badge, to do something.
Power; Authority
Dr. Kelley’s FOLLOWERSHIP model
Independent critical thinkers VS dependent uncritical thinkers
Active followers VS passive followers
FOUR Types of FOLLOWER-SHIP: Alienated, Passive, Conformist, Pragmatist, Exemplary
Type of follower who is a cynic; high thinking but low engagement; independent; smart but solo:
ALIENATED follower
Type of follower who is a sheep; disengaged and dependent thinker; new recruits most of the time:
PASSIVE follower
Type of follower who is a suck-up; low thinking but highly engaged:
CONFORMIST follower
Type of follower who is a survivor; just getting by; in the middle; middle thinking; middle engaged:
PRAGMATIST follower
Type of follower who is a superstar; a critical thinker who is fully engaged; a great leader:
EXEMPLARY follower
Ethical behavior can be guided using the Spartan S.P.E.A.R. Model: Stress, Professionalism, Explain (your actions), Accountability, Respect
Stress - The amygdala (primitive) hijack; must control this part of the brain
Professionalism - Appearance, behavior, and your knowledge matter
Explain your actions - Take the time and make the effort to explain the ‘why’
Accountability - to yourself and those you lead
Respect - building trust
MOTIVATION - from Latin “movere” which means TO MOVE - if you are motivated, you move towards a goal.
From Latin “movere” which means to move, if you are this, you move toward a goal:
MOTIVATION or Motivated
Once minimum expectations are set, focus on getting a little more done, or take action towards new goals. This is referred to as _______. Next, we must understand motivational approaches.
discretionary effort
MOTIVATION (Latin movere - to move) APPROACHES /// aka discretionary efforts to reach new goals
EXTRINSIC motivation - carrots (rewards) and sticks (coercive); OPERANT CONDITIONING
INTRINSIC motivation - from within / neuroscience
_____ Conditioning is using rewards and coercion (carrots and sticks); not usually effective, especially long term
OPERANT
Timely, specific, and meaningful ____ feedback
Positive
Positive feedback needs to be three things:
Timely, Specific, and Meaningful
ARETE recipe build on ___ ___ theory — theory of motivation
SDT = Self Determination Theory
The ARETE Recipe, A.R.E.T.E. Stands for:
Autonomy, the ability to choose. Micromanaging kills autonomy.
Relatedness, connection, belonging, attachment to others.
Expertise, KSA
Trust, when words are congruent with actions, trust develops
Expectations. Define what is required. Define the minimum. Anymore is discretionary behavior. Assume the best of people (Pygmalion effect) vs. assume worst (Golem effect)
When giving positive feedback, it releases a DOSE - A dose of dopamine and other chemicals in the brain. This will encourage discretionary behavior, set new goals, go above/beyond
_ _ academic - a nerd; a practicing academic. Edward Pallas the author is this.
Pracademic
Three step process to LEARNING:
1. Know - A General Knowledge. In the ___ Stage, you become aware of basic terminology and concepts. Once in this stage, you’ve reached the 2nd Stage of competence (conscious incompetence).
2. Understand - Comprehend, grasp, discern. “Aha” moment magic
3. Apply - Where you “do” leadership. / Acronym LEAD ME? F.U.! System
LEAD ME FU. — for people problems
L - Look and Listen LBWA = Leadership by walking around
E - Empathize
A - Ask Questions
D - Decide
M - Motivation or Ability?
E - Establish and Execute your plan
F / U - Follow up
LBWA stands for
Leadership by walking around
This first stage of learning is where you show up, see and hear, observe, get a feel for what normal is. LBWA (Leadership by Walking Around)
LEAD ME FU - L for Look and Listen
This stage of learning is where you have the ability to understand another person’s point of view.
LEAD ME FU - E for empathize
This stage of learning is where you demonstrate you care by asking questions.
LEAD ME FU - A is for Asking Questions
This stage of learning is where you choose a path, but be aware of the 1st decision trap (deciding too slowly) and the 2nd decision trap (decided too quickly). In this stage, ask yourself: is this a problem or an opportunity?
LEAD ME FU - D is for Decide
This stage of learning is where a problem has been identified, but you must find out if its a problem of motivation or ability. Performance issue? Is it Motivation or Ability?
LEAD ME FU - M stands for Motivation or Ability
If its a Motivation Problem (SOFT skills) - The plan could involve coercion (sticks/hammer) or rewards (carrots); or the A.R.E.T.E. Recipe; or a DOSE motivation cocktail.
Its its an Ability Problem (HARD skills) - Retraining, mentoring, coaching, develop KSA
This stage of learning is where you STOP, THINK, and ACT
LEAD ME FU - E stands for Execute or Establish a Plan
This final stage of learning is where you _______
LEAD ME FU - FU stands for Follow Up
STOP, THINK, and ACT is part of what stage of the LEAD ME FU model for people learning?
Execute and Establish a Plan stage
Listening made SIMPLE
We speak at 125 words per minute. We understand at 400 words per minute
So when someone is speaking to us, we’re only using 32% of our brain capacity. Thereforre we get bored and our minds wander. You zone out.
To combat this, we must develope ACTIVE LISTENING skills
Steps of the SIMPLE model
S - Single Task, focus on conversation only (phone off, shut laptop, reduce noise)
I - Inquire, ask questions to find common ground
M - Minimal Encouragers, No more than 50% of the conversation should be YOU talking. Use subtle words, phrases or body language designed to motivate speech, “Tell me what happened next…”
P - Paraphrase, rephrasing essential meaning of what is said, “So I’m hearing that…”
L - Label emotions, acknowledge positive and negative emotions. Acknowledge a negative emotion by saying, “You sound upset”
E - Embrace silence, resist urge to fill the silence, listening requires silence.
Define Feedback: Sharing information and your perceptions with another person about the nature, quality and impact of their behavior on the mission and goals of the organization
What type of feedback is most effective: POSITIVE
What is the HOT STOVE RULE? A management principle for delivering NEGATIVE feedback and discipline
Four steps of the HOT STOVE RULE:
Forewarning- STOVE shows RED. clear expectations
Immediate Consequences- STOVE BURNS.Conversations about expectations take place immediately
Consistency- STOVE ALWAYS HOT consistent feedback when expectations are not met
Impartial- STOP BURNS WITHOUT BIAS treat everyone equally as related to behavior
Think of the Hot Stove Rule like handling a hot stove: 1. You're warned it's hot (forewarning), 2. You feel the burn right away (immediate consequences), 3. The heat is consistent (consistency), and 4. The stove doesn't play favorites (impartiality).
When forming a study group, use the ____ model
REAP
REAP stands for:
Respect
Experience
All in
Practice
CHAPTER 1 Definition of Leadership by Edward Pallas: the process of influencing human behavior to create engagement, achieve organizational goals, and prepare followers for future leadership roles.
When your learning stops, your leadership stagnates.
The best way to help yourself grow is to help others grow.
There are two reasons leaders do not help others grow:
Priority - too busy or focused
Insecurity - Afraid others might surpass them
Leadership is not about rank, position, or title. It is about _____
Relationships
Edward Pallas says the most important thing for a leader to learn, the most important leadership trait, where all leadership growth must start, is:
SELF AWARENESS
Two Parts
Ability to understand yourself
Ability to see how others see you
Self aware leaders understand themselves and they understand how others see them.
The #1 important leadership trait is: SELF AWARENESS
Fundamental Attribution Error occurs when we see poor behavior in others, but we excuse our own behavior due to some other environmental factor
_____ occurs when what you say and do matches what you think and who you truly are.
Congruence
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